Often people tell me "I look well". I can take this as a compliment or an insult. Am I well ? It is all in my perspective. Did I look not well before or is that your way of stating I look nice. I am well in my mind and heart, so I take well as a compliment. There are many times I was not well and smiled graciously pretending to be well. I couldn't accept a compliment or an insult. I decided to take all is well or not well and make them a positive in my life. It comes down to